Monday, 20 January 2014

SUCCESS IS NOT A DESTINATION.

Success is not something which gives everything. The fact is that success increases expectations and many times leads to stress. It is our responsible to balance our response and reactions. It is common to feel happy in success and sad in failure, but not to extreme. Don't allow success to make you a failure. Planning is necessary to succeed, but, it becomes essential after success. Many times we see people who experience great success in a very short time and makes life a failure in no time. The reason behind this is having no plan, overconfidence, high expectations, and believing that they know everything. Steps to make life a splendid success throughout life:

1. Have a plan to increase opportunities. Ex: If you met success and earned enormously, create another fianncial source.

2. Know your strengths, focus on them. Know your weaknesses to eliminate them.

3. Expecting more is good, but working hard than ever before is necessary to reach expectations.

4. Don't allow others to plan for you, plan yourself for bright future.

5. Take guidance from people who passed through the same route you are now through. Ex: If you acheived success as a youth leader in politics, make a politician who started as a youth leader as your mentor. No need to approach him directly for this, you can read his experiences, attitude, steps he followed etc (in short, his entire life) through newspapers, magazines and internet.

6.Be confident, but not over confident.

7. Last but not least, enhance your relationships and circle to support you throughout your life both in success and failure. This is most important to make life a splendid success.