How To Handle Stressful Relationships And Friendships?

Hi frnds..After a very long time,I am here to post a very important topic yet many of us never focus on this topic.

   Life is all about relationships.When we had no one for us,we often feel life is so miserable.Is it so? Ok,may be or may not be. Because though many of us love to have company of frnds or family,few of us may like to stay alone.


    But if we love to stay with friends or family very often,we need to pose a question to ourselves. Are we really happy with their company or are we trying to be happy.It may be a bit confusing yet its necessary to answer. Many of us tries to be happy rather than being happy with certain frndships and relationships. Though we ignore it from time to time, it is true that such relationships effects us a lot.

   Give your love and care unconditionally to such people without expectations.Do whatever you can to make them happy. Try your best and be honest in your trials to carry on such relationships to the peak of happiness.But,there will be few people inspite of your purity,honesty,love,care and support, never understands you and are happy to hurt you.What can you do with this people? How these people are effecting your life? Are you stressed and worried because of such people? Answer these questions before you proceed to next para.

   If you get negative answers for these questions,then its time for you to leave such people permanently, even though you love them very much.Because it makes your life and their life too much easier and more happier.Try as much as you can and then give them the reasons for your decision and move on.This is the only way you had finally to make yourselves happy because you are very precious and so loveable.Keep smiling..Get on to the peak of happiness..

SMILE -- AN EVERLASTING SMILE

   

   SMILE, an everlasting smile. Smile, says “hi” to the people we know. Smile, makes new friends. Smile, removes all the sorrow. Smile, makes you look beautiful. Smile, keeps you healthy.

                                                                      S -  Speak

                                                                      M - More

                                                                      I -   In

                                                                      L-   Less
                                                                      E -  Energy

                                                                      

   SMILE, gives you new energy to start a day. Smile, makes you feel good. Smile, gives you peace. Smile, boosts your confidence. Smile, ends suffering. Smile, gives you more than you expect. Smile, keeps you positive. Smile, makes you look younger. Smile and make others smile to make your life happy. Add a little magic to your life through a cute smile. Finally, Smile makes you successful. Have a smiley day….. J J J J J

IDENTIFY UR VALUES

  To lead a great life, living a life with values is must. Identify your values. Know what u value the most in your life. Whether its personal or professional life, identifying values is must. If you observe life of any great leader,you can identify one thing in common i.e. they led their life with values.For instance, Great people like Mahatma Gandhi, Abraham Lincoln, Mother Teresa, Nelson Mandela etc lived their life with their identified values.

   Your values should run your life. If you identify your values, your life becomes more happy and successful. Every human being must have three categories of values:

1. Personal Values: It reflects your actions in your personal life. Values such as being confident, valuing human relations, sincerity, honesty etc.
2. Professional Values: Giving your best to any work you do, Completing work in time, Punctuality etc comes under this category.
3. Societal Values: Humanity, serving people, helping others etc

   However all these 3 categories overlaps with one another and are interdependent. When you have higher values in your personal life, only then you will follow your professional and societal values. Living a life with values gives enormous satisfaction and rises your spirit to higher levels. Identify your values and lead a peaceful life..

ITS YOUR LIFE....

  ITS YOUR LIFE. Live it for yourself. Love yourself. Be as you are. Don't let others live your life. Don't allow others to form your opinions. Don't allow others to create your happiness. Don't make others to rule your life. You are the KING OF YOUR LIFE.

   Live your life to the fullest with enormous happiness,zeal,enthusiasm and hope. Do what you want to do. Say what you want to say. Be how you want to be. Form your own opinions. Make your own choices. Act according to your heart. Motivate yourself. Dream big, Become great. BE THE KING OF YOUR LIFE....

FORGIVE YOURSELF

    Life is amazing. Every one wants to enjoy it. But,sometimes in this process,  we may commit some mistakes knowingly or unknowingly. After realising those mistakes its better to rectify or not to commit those mistakes again. But, if u do something wrong,it doesn't mean u have to regret for it throughout ur life. In life,there are no mistakes, only lessons. Learn from the past and design ur life. But don't stop there in the past. Move on and create a great life for urself. Mistakes are a part of life, but it should not cease ur success. Sometimes its easy to forgive the mistakes of others,but tough to forgive our own mistakes. But its essential. So,Just forgive urself.

BE HAPPY

Happiness is not something which depends on situations,it is something which we create ourselves. Being happy doesn't mean having everything, it simply means controlling our emotions. Happiness is not a state of mind,its a feeling, we can feel whenever we want. In this world, no one is free from problems. But the people who choose to be happy will be happy forever. Don't allow any circumstances to steal your happiness. Be positive and trust urself. U are capable of inspiring the entire world. BE HAPPY ALWAYS..

Life helps you only when u deserve

Life helps you only when u deserve it. If you thrive for success,success comes to you. Never give up till you win. There is only one way for success, i.e. to do smart work. Work till you get sucess, dats the only way to succeed in life.............................................................................................................................................

VIVEKANANDA SWAMY - GREAT MOTIVATOR OF ALL TIMES

LISTEN TO YOUR HEART

   Everyday we will listen to the words of our family,friends,strangers. But do we dedicate time to hear to our heart. This is necessary to live happy life. Listen to your heart. It gives a lot of information about you, your thoughts, your likes and dislikes. It motivates you. It criticises you. It appreciates you. It shows new opportunities. I am sure, it never lies. It talks very frankly and helps you to grow..Try it...

FRIENDSHIP

   Friendship, a word used most frequently by youngsters. Life without friends is miserable, but having fake friends is more dangerous. Having at least one true friend is a big task. Choosing friends is very difficult. We must think many times before choosing a person as our friend. Coz' friends reflect our character.

   Friends are those who understands us well. They understands our feelings without expressing. They are the best critics who aids us in eliminating negative characteristics in us.Friends are those who have confidence on our abilities and who always hopes for our success. They stays with us even in our trouble times. They are always just a call away.They guides us when we are unable to choose the path of life.

   Choose the friends of these characteristics and avoid those who manipulate you. Though its very painful to avoid,its necessary to make our life successful. Remember, Fake friends are more dangerous than real enemies. Never choose a friend without understanding and never lose a friend with a small misunderstanding.

TRUE SUCCESS.............

   What do we really mean by success? What is true success? Success doesn't mean defeating others. Not earning millions of money. Not becoming great. These can't be considered as success.

    Success simply means  to do what you heart says. Following your passion. Improving your human relations. Spending time with your dear ones. Making people around you happy. Showing kindness towards others. Having Humanity, Empathy, Loving nature. Doing only the right things. Defeating your weaknesses. Inspiring others. Making a difference in the lives of others. Success, in one word, is Happiness. Do the things which makes you happy. But, remember happiness lies within you and your deeds done in rightful manner. Don't search for happiness in material possessions. Discover happiness within you and it is your TRUE SUCCESS...